Here is a really small sidebar article about the man behind one of my favorite shows of all time that inspired me to actually buckle down and try to chase writing and concert photography for real. I carried it around in my wallet for inspiration to read when I'm bored or need encouragement. Why not listen to someone who clearly knows what he's talking about?
Basically #1 had the most impact on me because it helped me get serious and start building the path myself. I patterned my methods after my idols, but in my own way and in a manner I am comfortable with that doesn't betray who I am. For example, some people might feel confident enough to post video blogs on YouTube to promote themselves, but I am not one of them.
I also love #2 because although it can make you feel guilty to turn down offers someone else might jump at, you have to be true to your heart and have faith that something better for you is around the corner. Don't make yourself take anything out of desperation, because resentment will kick in from day one. If you are severely hesitant to accept an offer, there must be a reason and you should trust yourself. Besides, any time I've turned down an opportunity, I found that later I was glad I did. So, in other words, go with your gut.
Anyway, here's the article:
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From an Entertainment Weekly interview with Matthew Weiner, 12/12/08:
"How the 43-year old exec producer of AMC's Emmy-winning Mad Men got smart in five easy steps
1. He realized he wasn't smart-yet
"I started looking at people whose careers I wanted—David Chase, Woody Allen— and saw that I was not on that path."
2. He said no.
"I turned down a contract at Becker even though I had no other job. It proved that I was uncompromising. Or crazy."
3. He made stuff.
"I wrote the Mad Men script to show what I could do."
4. He never gave up.
"It takes hundreds of no's to get a yes. How many networks are there? That's how many no's I got."
5. He played nice with everyone.
"My Mad Men script was given to AMC by my manager's former assistant. Taking your aggression out on anyone will always come back to bite you. Sometimes in the parking lot after the meeting."
